i really hate this narrative that people must be happy because others have it worse. people can have 10 interviews and be disappointed and people can have 5 and be ecstatic. everyone has different priorities and we should be able to have all of those coversations here < you're right, I have 30 interivews and im really sad I didn't get harvard < i am sure you are being sarcastic but for people who really feel that way, it is valid. just as valid as other people's concerns especially since there is no separate chat here for different groups of people. < absolutely, but there is also consideration. to say "only" when clearly a number is much higher than others is just not considerate, though it is okay to feel how you want!